I’m a woman who started grew a beard – people call me a ‘freak’

A woman who started growing a beard at the age of 11 says that even though she has been called a ‘freak,’ she has not regretted a thing.

Morgan Coleman, 26, who has spent years battling a hair growth condition has now decided to ditch the razor and embrace her ginger beard.

She first spotted the unusual hair on her cheeks, chin and neck when she was aged 11.

She desperately removed it throughout her teenage years to avoid comments from cruel bullies.

But now, aged 26, she’s decided to stop feeling shame over her condition – known as hirsutism – and has stopped removing the hair.

She proudly wears a full ginger beard – and is encouraging others to do the same.

Morgan said: “I struggled every day for 15 years with hirsutism, and after spending a lot of time in hospital recently, I decided it’s time.

“It’s time to embrace my natural face and, surprisingly, people aren’t as judgmental as you’d think!

“Of course some people are, and they do say some awful things, but for the most part, more often than not, people are becoming more understanding.

“I do struggle with self-confidence – after many years of bullying, it does have an impact on your self-confidence, but I am definitely feeling much more confident since I’ve decided to embrace my natural face.

“I am really at peace with it now. It’s difficult to explain, but I feel free – I wake up and that’s now the last thing I think about, it’s wonderful!”

Morgan, who now lives in Melbourne, Australia, first noticed the thick hair while growing up on the Gold Coast.

She says was subjected to cruel taunts from classmates and used all the tools she could get her hands on to remove the unwanted facial hair.

She said: “It was horrible and isolating. Both kids and young adults were very cruel.

“I was bullied severely for many years. I don’t have many fond memories from my school years.

“I used to get a lot of horrible comments from nasty people saying I was ugly, I’m a freak, I’m a man, I’m transgender.

“I used to get a lot of comments about my sideburns in particular – there was a stage that every second person that walked past me would comment on them, tell me to shave my face, laugh at me and make fun of me.

“It was particularly difficult at the time because I didn’t know why I was a bit different, I just knew I was different and that was hard because I couldn’t explain why.

“After a lot of bullying, I became very anxious and self conscious about it. I used a combination of waxing, plucking, hair remover creams and shaving, every day, 365 days a year.”

Morgan underwent electrolysis in 2011 in a bid to remove the hair for good but found no success with her facial hair simply growing faster and thicker over time.

After years of hiding her facial hair, Morgan was finally diagnosed with hirsutism and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome in January 2021.

PCOS is a condition that affects how the ovaries work with many sufferers experiencing irregular periods and facial hair and often struggle with falling pregnant.

She said: “I had been to doctors previously about the hirsutism and was told multiple times ‘some people just have more hair than others’.

“I was definitely relieved to have a diagnosis – an explanation as to why I am a bit different – but it was also scary being diagnosed with a medical condition.”

In April 2022, Morgan fell ill with coronavirus during a holiday and used that time to reflect on her lifestyle.

She said: “I was in hospital on my own for six days and some of those days, I could hardly get out of bed. It was lonely and scary.

“I decided it’s time – it’s time to embrace my natural face.

“I decided it was time to prioritise my physical and mental health and part of doing that for me was to accept the things I can not change.

“We are all unique. There is nothing wrong with looking different.”

Since ditching the razors two months ago, Morgan has no regrets over her decision and is loving her new confidence with her facial hair no longer hidden.

She says she has experienced “disgusted looks” from strangers but feels more free since embracing her natural face and has no plans to return to remove the hair.

Morgan said: “I have had some strange and disgusted looks and that is OK.

“Not everyone likes it, but at the end of the day, those that know me, know that I’m still me even though I may look a bit different.

“For the most part, everyone in general but particularly my family and friends have been unbelievably supportive and that has made a world of difference.

“I’m the same person I was before, I just feel so much more free now and I am not as anxious as I used to be.

“I enjoy spreading awareness where possible – I am a believer of creating acceptance and normalizing facial hair on women is best done by spreading awareness, answering questions and sharing information. PCOS is such a common syndrome.

This story originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced here with permission.