Woman planning wedding says fiancé forgot he proposed

Wedding bells were ringing in a woman’s head, but for her supposed fiancé, a wedding didn’t even ring a bell. 

An unidentified woman said that when she approached the man she thought was her fiancé of 9 months to tell him she was going wedding dress shopping, his reply was: “why would I marry someone I’m not even dating?” according to the woman’s Facebook post, which 7news.com.au shared in a report. 

“Nine months ago my (who I thought was) fiancé asked me to marry him,” the confused bride-to-be said in the post.

“He didn’t have a ring so I assumed it was a spur of the moment decision, but I am a chill woman … I understood the ring will come later and all that matters is we have each other,” she continued. 

“I had been planning my dream wedding for 7 months now. When I told him I was going dress shopping he looked at me like I had 5 heads,” she lamented in the post. 

The Facebook post was later shared to a Reddit page, where other Reddit users were divided on what really went down in the couple’s alleged relationship, 7news.com.au reported.

“She probably said something clever or cute and the guy said ‘Will you marry me?’ tongue in cheek,” guessed one Redditor. 

“It’s gotta be that… like she grabbed him a snack while she was up and he said ‘Ugh marry me” or something and she ran with it,” guessed another. 

Others speculated that the woman’s fiancé wasn’t as confused about the thought of holy matrimony as he chalked himself up to be and he might be a player and a phony. 

“Everyone’s talking about how [bizarre] the woman is, but no one is talking about how the dude might have been gaslighting her the whole time,” said a Redditor. 

Another Redditor chimed in to say she had a similar haunting wedding planning experience.

“This happened to me. Proposed, planning a wedding without a ring, used the ring money to buy a hunting license and bow then asked me what the hell I was talking about when I brought up my ring,” she wrote. 

Unfortunately, this woman’s wedding hopes just didn’t hold water, unlike a British couple’s proposal last month during which the groom accidentally dropped the engagement ring into a lake.